【Hacker News搬运】曾祖母的窗口正在关闭

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Title: The window for great-grandmothers is closing

曾祖母的窗口正在关闭

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Url: https://memoirsandrambles.substack.com/p/the-window-for-great-grandmothers

很抱歉，我尝试使用webscraper抓取指定URL的内容时遇到了连接超时的问题。因此，我无法直接分析并总结该网页的内容。不过，如果您能够提供该网页的中文翻译或者内容摘要，我可以帮助您进行进一步的分析。

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CalRobert: If you haven't read the article, it's about how people having kids later means you won't meet your great grandparents.My mom had me when she was 23, and her mom had her at 22. I'm in my forties and still have two living grandparents, and am very grateful for them. I remember a lot of days where my grandmother watched me and my sister, and she was able to do that because she was only in her late 40's herself and plenty mobile. I knew two of my great grandmothers, one of them only dying in my teens.Not everyone can rely on parents to help with childcare, but it is worth keeping in mind that if you wait until your mid 30's they might not be able to catch a running toddler like they could a decade earlier.My mom also managed to have a really good career, though she went to night school when I was around 6 and worked her ass off in general. But, she had a high earning partner to support her.I don't really have a single point here, except that I worry we've ignored the less-obvious downsides to people delaying childbearing until their mid 30's.

CalRobert: 如果您没有；t读过这篇文章，it；这是关于人们以后生孩子意味着你不会；I don’我没见过你的曾祖父母 我妈妈23岁时生了我，她妈妈22岁生了她。I-；我四十多岁了，还有两个在世的祖父母，我非常感激他们。我记得有很多天我的祖母看着我和我的妹妹，她之所以能做到这一点，是因为她才40多岁；她自己也很灵活。我认识我的两位曾祖母，其中一位在我十几岁的时候就去世了 并不是每个人都可以依靠父母来帮助照顾孩子，但值得记住的是，如果你等到30岁左右；s他们可能无法像十年前那样抓住一个奔跑的蹒跚学步的孩子 我妈妈也有一个非常好的职业生涯，尽管她在我6岁左右的时候上夜校，一般来说她都很努力。但是，她有一个高收入的伴侣来支持她 我不；除了我担心我们；ve忽略了人们将生育推迟到30岁中期的不太明显的负面影响；s

modeless: > this source for example claims global life expectancy jumped from around 47 to 72 from 1950 to 2022I believe this is because of reductions in child mortality more than increases in adult lifespan. So it doesn't affect the number of great grandmothers that much.Having kids older is definitely a big change for society and individual families, though. Every day as a parent I wish I was 15 years younger and my parents were too. It would be a huge difference in our energy levels and that's so important when you're hanging out with young kids. And it's 15 years less time that we will be able to spend together with our kids.

modeless: &gt；例如，该消息来源声称，从1950年到2022年，全球预期寿命从47岁左右跃升至72岁。我认为这是因为儿童死亡率的下降大于成人寿命的增加。所以它不；对曾祖母的数量影响不大 不过，让孩子长大对社会和个人家庭来说无疑是一个巨大的变化。作为父母，我每天都希望自己小15岁，我的父母也是。这将是我们能量水平的巨大差异；当你；你在和小孩子们玩。并且它；we’我们与孩子们在一起的时间将减少15年。

zachmu: Still think about this essay on the topic I saw on twitter a few years back:<a href="https://hmmdaily.com/2018/10/18/your-real-biological-clock-is-youre-going-to-die/" rel="nofollow">https://hmmdaily.com/2018/10/18/your-real-biological-clock-i...</a>> If you intend to have children, but you don’t intend to have them just yet, you are not banking extra years as a person who is still too young to have children. You are subtracting years from the time you will share the world with your children.

zachmu: 还是想想几年前我在推特上看到的这篇关于这个话题的文章吧：<a href=“https://；&#x2F；hmmdaily.com&#x2F！2018&#x20F；10&#x2F：18&#x2F，你真正的生物钟是你要死了&#x2F”rel=“nofollow”>https://&#x2F；hmmdaily.com；2018年；10；18；你的生物钟…</a>&gt；如果你打算生孩子，但现在还不打算生，那么作为一个还太小而不能生孩子的人，你并没有指望多活几年。你与孩子共享世界的时间正在减去几年。

munificent: If you ever sit down and really think about it, it is absolutely wild how profoundly the invention of the birth control pill has changed the course of human history, our cultures, and human society.It's gotta be up there with, like, writing and fire, in terms of shaping the destiny of our species.

munificent: 如果你坐下来仔细想想，避孕药的发明对人类历史、文化和人类社会的改变是多么深刻，真是太疯狂了 它；在塑造我们这个物种的命运方面，我们必须与写作和火焰同在。

cacheyourdreams: Aren't life expectancy at birth figures heavily skewed by infant mortality rates. I think this is quite a commonly misunderstood statistic for this reason. So while it's true that in the past a new born baby's chances of becoming a great grandparent were much lower than they would be today, that would mainly be due to the low chances of them ever reaching adulthood and becoming a parent at all, rather than the chances of parents living beyond 47.

cacheyourdreams: 不；t出生时的预期寿命数字严重受婴儿死亡率的影响。出于这个原因，我认为这是一个经常被误解的统计数字。因此，当它；这是真的，在过去一个新出生的婴儿；他们成为曾祖父母的几率比现在低得多，这主要是因为他们成年并成为父母的几率很低，而不是父母活到47岁以上的几率。